How To Keep A Good and Harmony Relationship

When love is brand new it is exciting and wonderful, you feel like you are on top of the world. This person you are with is your 'knight in shining armor' what more could you ask for? If only it were that simple and that captivating many would want to dwell in such happiness and perfect harmony forever!

Reality walks in

Alas, after about the first few months you are finding that the spark is not so bright anymore, in fact it is getting rather dim. Yes you have to get back down out of cloud nine and face the reality. He is not the perfect knight as you had once thought. In fact he is rather ordinary just as you are and now you know why all your friends rolled their eyes when you gushed all over the place about him.

What is going on now?

Now that you have come to grips with the fact your guy isn't any more special than other people's relationships, is it good enough to hang on to? Are you just dissatisfied with the lack of fun you once use to have or could there be a bigger issue? Are you arguing or fighting over things? Does it seem like one of you is always apologizing? Are you an emotional wreck?

Get some space

Sometimes even the greatest relationships need space. Space with your own thoughts, so you can think on your own, just being alone can help to rejuvenate the mind. All of us need time for ourselves to be an individual that can think on our own. Relationship is not two people acting as one that cannot function without the other. A relationship is two individual people that come together and work as a team but with never losing their true identity.

Sharing

When you are apart and doing things separately with friends or by yourself, you can come back together and share. If you are never apart then you provide nothing new to the relationship there would virtually be nothing to talk about that the other did not already know.

Deciding what is important

When you now look at your relationship is it normal or is it barely functional? If it is basically normal then just look for ways to make it a little more exciting and just doing something spontaneously for a change will help revive a boring routine. But if you are looking at more serious issues, it is really time to sit down and talk about it or possibly walk away from each other for a spell. This will help to see if you really miss each other and the relationship is worth the effort to rekindle.